My cousin's Marriage
We (Me and My Family) had to stand up early in the morning around
4:30 in Saturday and we traveled to Burgas. First we had to go to a
herbman to prescribe me some Herbs. The herbamn is called "bai
Dimitar" where bai is a bulgarian specific title for a man on age
after the middle age he is located in Kamenartzi village (a small
village near Bourgas). He is a sort of strange guy and is speaking
very strange things. I hope this herbs will help me. I have to boil
them and drink them five times a day. After that we went to Bourgas
in my aunt Galia and uncle Galen's apartment. Everything was a sort
was going smooth, Gergana my cousin which was going to merry
dressed with a bride dress and waited for his future man
(son-in-law). The guy appeared with a limosine and an orchestra.
Some ordinary Bulgarian rituals were followed after that the
ceremony continued in the council house. Where they became man and
wife officially (in front of Bulgaria). After that it followed a
celebration in a Bourgas Hotel called "Bulgaria". The celebration
of the marriage included again different traditional Bulgarian
dances, guest also danced and ofcourse the Bulgarian familiar
horos. I did eat a lot of food and drinked a lot of the meaningless
of marriage and all this vanity into celebrity and a lot of empty
words spokened there I also convinced myself that I would NEVER
EVER allow to have a marriage celebration like this. Some 20 or 30%
of the music was Chalga which ofcourse drived me mad. In somewhere
05:00 in the morning we traveled back by car with my father
driving. My father is driver from some few months and I definetely
can't say he is an experiencable type of driver which may allow
himself to drive with speed higher than the maximum allowed,
anywayz he did and I just tried to make him aware that he is
braking the driver codex rules. He instead of taking my notes which
I made with the idea that I would like to be home back ALIVE,
nagged him and he started yelling at me and telling me to stop to
complain. That ended in again making me hate him and regret I have
parents like this which was a expected to happen since I was angry
at all the stupidity and the low intelectual level of most of the
ppl who were invited into the Marriage ceremony (although most of
them were businessman and a ppl with a high degrees, education).
The thing that irritated me the most that the had a marriage
ceremony in a orthodox Church and they probably did this just
because this is the ordinary way most ppl in Bulgaria does. PFF.. I
have slept just for a hour or two today so I probably will go to
sleep soon. But first I intend to go for a Liturgy in St. George's
orthodox church. This is after 20 minutes from now. Well thats most
of how I spend my saturday on "nothing". The good thing from all
that was that Niki, a.k.a. Nomen's brother has given me his PSP for
the weekend. So I had the time to examine it and generally play
with it. I even used a free wifi access in the restaurant where we
were and did a bit of browsing